Basic Advice

The majority of people who are visiting Nanning will be going to meet their girlfriend. Nanning is a City in China that many people in the UK and Europe have never heard of before. We are endeavouring to pass on valuable information gained from our visits to Nanning and China.

It would be advisable to slowly build up your relationship with your girlfriend over a period of three months or so, using various means of communications. This can be in the form of e-mails, instant messages and telephone calls; this can be done using Skype. This will give you some understanding of each other so you will not be meeting as total strangers.

There are undesirable people in the majority of societies who will try to take advantage of you and who have no interest in a relationship. There are many stories in the press about men who have lost substantial amounts of money because they have not noticed the warning signs.

The Warning Signs

Remember to protect yourself and be on your guard, after a short period of contact via e-mail, she will ask you for money. She needs a new computer or a member of the family is in hospital and they cannot afford the medical treatment. These are examples, use common sense and keep a clear head and if you are having doubts please use the forum to ask for advice.

Discover

As you will discover 99 per-cent of the ladies in Nanning are very honest, faithful, sincere and trustworthy. They are excellent wives and mothers and will give you a lifetime of happiness. They may indeed ask you for money for English lessons after your first meeting because they want to communicate with you, which will improve your understanding of each other.

The majority of ladies in Nanning have limited or no English language skills. They may have a friend who will translate for them. The most common way is for them to go to a local matchmaker or translator, who will charge on the day of your marriage. This can be in excess of £1,000, not including translation fees. The majority of translators are very good; there are some that just want to make money from your relationship so be careful.

In most relationships there will be misunderstanding between your girlfriend the translator and yourself so be patient and don't jump to conclusion.

So the time has come, you have decided to go to Nanning perhaps to meet your future wife, so what preparations do you need to make before you go?   Top